Thursday, September 19, 2019

Dating - An Issue of Personal Choice :: Personal Narrative Essays

Dating - An Issue of Personal Choice First there was the passing notes, hand holding and name-calling of middle school. Then you survived your first heartbreak when your high school sweetheart decided it would be best to be â€Å"just friends.† Now swept away in college life, with an important aspect being dorm life, you hardly take the time to step back and ask yourself, â€Å"What am I doing here? Who’s bed did I just wake up in, and how the hell did I get here?!† Okay, so the second part may not be applicable to all students, but at the same time you cannot deny that it happens, likely more often than one would be comfortable thinking about. If you have not yet taken the time to ponder what it is you plan to do with the so-called â€Å"best four years of your life,† besides studying and eating dorm food, perhaps it is about time you did. What do you want to be accomplishing in these prime dating years? More importantly, is that what you are accomplishing? In short, the purpose of this writing is to discuss the question: â€Å"What role should dating play in college students’ lives?† Initially one might think this is a frivolous subject. On the contrary, there is a quite a range of opinions on the subject with marriage incorporated into a number of them. Marriage is not a frivolous topic. Consequently its precursor, dating, also bears significance. One might also think that college students, being in the midst of their own dating lives, would be able to define dating, be familiar with their intentions, and have a strong concept of where the decisions they make today will take them tomorrow, as they relate to dating. Surprisingly, of the students I spoke with here on the Colorado State University campus, while conducting an informal survey, none would have met that standard. All hesitated greatly when asked to simply â€Å"define dating.† Once done struggling through that answer, they were asked â€Å"In your opinion, what is the purpose of dating in college?† These students’ answers ranged from â€Å"getting laid!† to â€Å"discover more about yourself through others and to find the person you want to marry† to â€Å"I have no clue.† Clearly, the college masses are blissfully unaware of exactly what it is they are doing when they are in pursuit of the attractive sex.

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